Every now and then, I stumble across a concept that is so obvious that I wonder why I hadn’t thought of it myself. Last week, I read that a good portion of a student’s non-compliance to directions is caused not by his defiance, but by his incompetence: the student misinterprets or doesn’t know how to follow directions. Honestly, it had never crossed my mind that incompetence could be the root cause of not being able to focus or follow directions. ADD, ADHD, yes. Incompetence, no.
Defiant or Incompetent?
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